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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Marriage Fitness Quiz
Jun 10, 2014 9:25 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 34,171
In Silicon Valley, we focus on all sorts of fitness: physical, career, raising children who will excel, fiscal, and so on. What's the current state of your marriage... More
Jun 10, 2014 9:25 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 34,171
In Silicon Valley, we focus on all sorts of fitness: physical, career, raising children who will excel, fiscal, and so on. What's the current state of your marriage... More
"Wanting Sex Again"
Jun 4, 2014 3:36 pm
Comments: 11 | Views: 37,337
The question isn't IF we will ever have sexual issues, but when. Just as all relationships require work, so will our sex life. And at times, we may need outside... More
Jun 4, 2014 3:36 pm
Comments: 11 | Views: 37,337
The question isn't IF we will ever have sexual issues, but when. Just as all relationships require work, so will our sex life. And at times, we may need outside... More
"The Big Snit"
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 35,941
If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More
May 30, 2014 8:28 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 35,941
If you haven't seen Richard Condie's The Big Snit for a while (or not at all), Couple's Net says, "Check it out." ... More
Yank the Scab Off
May 27, 2014 8:36 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 33,006
Sunday morning, partly cloudy in Portland. Sitting in a cafe having just had a Caffe macchiato.
The art on the walls are life size pregnant women made of fabric.... More
May 27, 2014 8:36 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 33,006
Sunday morning, partly cloudy in Portland. Sitting in a cafe having just had a Caffe macchiato.
The art on the walls are life size pregnant women made of fabric.... More
What to do Without Devices?
May 20, 2014 12:41 pm
Comments: 5 | Views: 34,452
Dear Chandrama,
If we're off devices (including TV) in order to spend quality time together, what do we do?
Might Get Bored
Dear Might Get Bored,
I'm glad... More
May 20, 2014 12:41 pm
Comments: 5 | Views: 34,452
Dear Chandrama,
If we're off devices (including TV) in order to spend quality time together, what do we do?
Might Get Bored
Dear Might Get Bored,
I'm glad... More
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