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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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I Finished my Novel: Connect Two Hearts, and Musings
Sep 7, 2017 8:09 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 26,581
Thank you all for reading the excerpts I posted these last few months. I really appreciate the title suggestions you gave, too. I submitted Connect Two Hearts... More
Sep 7, 2017 8:09 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 26,581
Thank you all for reading the excerpts I posted these last few months. I really appreciate the title suggestions you gave, too. I submitted Connect Two Hearts... More
“Many people spend more time in planning the wedding than the marriage."
Sep 1, 2017 2:19 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 31,239
-- Zig Ziglar
This is so true. Couples tell me they didn’t discuss money, kids, step-kids, in-laws, location where they’d live, and so much more.... More
Sep 1, 2017 2:19 pm
Comments: 1 | Views: 31,239
-- Zig Ziglar
This is so true. Couples tell me they didn’t discuss money, kids, step-kids, in-laws, location where they’d live, and so much more.... More
It’s Not Always Been a Happy Marriage . . .
Aug 24, 2017 2:00 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 27,325
. . . I guess I wanted a quick fix.
--David Byrne
Don’t you all want a quick fix? If only it were so . . .
Most marriages don’t quickly get to... More
Aug 24, 2017 2:00 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 27,325
. . . I guess I wanted a quick fix.
--David Byrne
Don’t you all want a quick fix? If only it were so . . .
Most marriages don’t quickly get to... More
It’s Not Someone Else’s Responsibility to Honor My Marriage . . .
Aug 17, 2017 11:56 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 27,282
. . . It’s my responsibility.
--David Duchovny
David is right. It’s your responsibility to honor your marriage. What vows did you make? Are you... More
Aug 17, 2017 11:56 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 27,282
. . . It’s my responsibility.
--David Duchovny
David is right. It’s your responsibility to honor your marriage. What vows did you make? Are you... More
A Hard Road
Aug 10, 2017 1:22 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 27,837
I want to share an excerpt from another new book of mine: A Hard Road It's a story of cancer survival for patients and caregivers.We hope it will help you... More
Aug 10, 2017 1:22 pm
Comments: 4 | Views: 27,837
I want to share an excerpt from another new book of mine: A Hard Road It's a story of cancer survival for patients and caregivers.We hope it will help you... More
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