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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Couples: Retirement Hot Potato!
Aug 31, 2018 7:23 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 25,978
The top three issues couples have are about sex, money and power. So today I’m going to write about money, specifically retirement. So much of the help you... More
Aug 31, 2018 7:23 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 25,978
The top three issues couples have are about sex, money and power. So today I’m going to write about money, specifically retirement. So much of the help you... More
Recent Research for Wives to Keep Husbands from Straying
Jul 27, 2017 11:55 am
Comments: 4 | Views: 25,920
First, it’s interesting that the study didn’t take into account wives straying and how husbands can prevent that, but on to the research.
“The... More
Jul 27, 2017 11:55 am
Comments: 4 | Views: 25,920
First, it’s interesting that the study didn’t take into account wives straying and how husbands can prevent that, but on to the research.
“The... More
Couples: Seven Simple Steps to Deal with Remodeling
Nov 10, 2017 1:32 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 25,881
Couples and remodeling . . . have you been through this? It is often a major problem between couples, leading them into counseling.
My husband and I are remodeling,... More
Nov 10, 2017 1:32 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 25,881
Couples and remodeling . . . have you been through this? It is often a major problem between couples, leading them into counseling.
My husband and I are remodeling,... More
Couples: Miscarriage
Feb 1, 2019 4:27 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 25,867
Since publishing my book, No U-Turn at Mercy Street: A Memoir and Resource Guide for Grieving Parents, I've heard from readers that resonate with reading about my... More
Feb 1, 2019 4:27 pm
Comments: 0 | Views: 25,867
Since publishing my book, No U-Turn at Mercy Street: A Memoir and Resource Guide for Grieving Parents, I've heard from readers that resonate with reading about my... More
Silicon Valley Burnout?
May 6, 2022 7:33 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 25,854
Psychologists Herbert Freudenberger & Gail North identified the concept of burnout in the 1970s and assigned it 12 stages of development and experience.
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May 6, 2022 7:33 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 25,854
Psychologists Herbert Freudenberger & Gail North identified the concept of burnout in the 1970s and assigned it 12 stages of development and experience.
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